A question that I always seem to be asked is how to be the perfect hostess. I think a good hostess entertains with her guests in the “spotlight”. The focus should be on them!
It is incumbent upon the hostess to consider the guests and pay particular attention to what they love and prefer.
With the appearance of Spring, there is little doubt that you are ready to invite friends over for an afternoon tea ,delicate brunch or outdoor get-together. It is usually with great eagerness that I look forward to decorating with lovely light colors and the delicate trimmings of the season. More importantly, however, is your determination to host with the preferences and concerns of guests in mind. Showing each of them that you have taken a moment to consider their tastes, desires and preferences will make an impression bigger than if you had rented a giant arena for your affair.
A lovely way to honor your attendees at your Spring soiree is to find out in advance what flower each guests just loves. Everyone adores flowers and isn’t it amusing that we all have a favorite? This information can be easily and covertly gathered from spouses and friends, even children and personal assistants. If impossible, finding out the favorite color of your guest (ask for this on your party invitation) can be all the information you need. Simply find a coordinating bloom!
Then, compose a small, personal arrangement for each guest in attendance. Evince each with a plant stake that sports their name. If space allows, each arrangement can also serve as a place card. This lovely offering will leave little doubt that you, as a host, care deeply about even the smallest things that enamor your guests. As a final, warm gesture, you can present the arrangement to each guest as a parting gift, a reminder of your adoration for them.
It is doubtful that in the years to come what you served at your Spring brunch will be remembered or discussed. I am almost certain that it will be hard for your guests to remember what they wore on that day. But what will stay with them forever will be the grace and kindness you showed by finding out what they loved and giving it to them.
